#die incel!

[kharmii]

Someone posted more garbage blaming male isolation on 'white guy culture' and 'capitalism', and then, like a coward, they made it so a person couldn't reblog. I still wrote something in reply:

No, it's not the usual bullshit sheltered left-wing college kids want to blame it on. No, everything isn't the fault of 'capitalism' or 'eeebul white guys'. Again, secular progressivism has caused more death and misery worldwide than all religious wars combined. If anything, leftwing culture has made everything more effed up for men with screw around culture creating an environment where we now have the greatest percentage of unmarried men in recorded history. For sure, it's not healthy for men to treat their SO as their only source of emotional support, but now they don't even have that.

Everything started going wrong during the Carter and then Reagan administrations in the 70/80's. Before then, men could get good paying jobs in a factory near where they lived and make enough money to support a wife being a stay-at-home mother and a couple of kids. Pushing women to enter the workforce 'for independence' is a huge scam foisted on us, because now we have a culture where both parents often have to work to barely afford a couple of kids and a mortgage. Women find it more noble to be cogs in the machine. Some people can't even manage the kids, (or they are lazy and selfish) so they end up with a butt-licking poop-eating stanky dog-child to get extra weird about.

Next thing you know; they're leaving rude comments about Kristi Noem shooting a damn dog (it's a fucking dog, calm down weirdos) while gushing, "I love my dog so much! Look at my shit-breath baby that just got done eating its own ass and is now licking off my ice-cream cone! Isn't that cuuuuute!"

Anyway, another problem we have (that goes along with the point about men in social clubs) is that we don't have close knit communities anymore. We don't have neighborhoods where everybody knows each other. How many people live in isolation on social media and don't even know their neighbors? How often do you see block parties or guys inviting the other guys on the street over for a cookout? Less people have children, so you don't meet new people having other peoples' kids knocking on your door asking if your child can play. (I suppose theoretically you could meet new people letting your stank-beast 'child' run around a dog-park).

-So then you have isolated men who have to meet other male friends through work. How would that work out for me if I was a male? It sure didn't work out for me being a female. I married and had children with a man from the other side of the goddamn planet while the losers I worked with labeled me as no fun because I wasn't into the Dem voting blue state party culture.

If you are a man in my place of employment, you have to be into the casino boats, betting pools, smoking pot jokes, telling the same stupid stories about getting drunk at bars and ballgames during your long-ago youth....and it's no wonder half of them ended up childless, unmarried weirdos in their forties and fifties. There was the one lowlife into fuck-and-dump culture, (and even he lived with his mom until age 40) but most of them are incels who are getting fatter and balder. None of them have grown into mature role-models with great character. None of them are the elders at the church or the guy you'd go to if you needed advice.

Side note: The guy they've talked into stalking me doesn't fit in with the culture. Under better circumstances, (like if he wasn't a misogynistic patronizing asshole who isn't even attracted to me, and I'm not really sure what the deal is.....) I might be into him, because for an older man, he's physically fit. He's into one of those Sierra Club type groups full of people doing outdoorsy shit, such as camping, hiking, canoeing..etc. He belongs to a lot of co-ed social clubs where they play cards on Thursdays or whathaveya...

Meanwhile, the flabby lowlife goobers complain that 'there's nothing to do in a small town! This is why so many men are dying of fentanyl!'

I've taken the piss about this so much. The Kharmii be like.......you mean there's not enough lowlife shit for low lives to do in a small town? Low lives have to OD on fentanyl out of boredom because there's not enough for dirty rotten low life scumbags to do? You have to drive all the way up to the suburbs for strip clubs and casino boats, and the Biden economy has made gas over $4/gallon?

[kharmii]

As we age, we grow and change as human beings. Suddenly what we used to consider 'fun' isn't the same, or we develop interests that push old interests to the back burner. Now I have kids, I still like doing fun stuff, -such as carnivals and amusements parks- but I'm more into it to see them have a good time. Concerts and days at the beach have to be planned well in advance, but I don't live my life counting down the days because there's so much else occupying my time.

Also, as you age, develop hobbies. PLEASE do this. Go out, do volunteer work, join clubs and develop character. Do the kinds of things that make you have to sit quietly on your own. Suddenly, 'fun' won't be the focus of your life.

I remember being in a bar with all my friends when I turned 25, and I felt uneasy because my life wasn't going anywhere at that point. I still lived with my parents and didn't have a career position at my place of employment. I hung out with a bunch of losers who smoked pot and liked to hang out at bars and clubs. It was still fun to do bowling and karaoke night, but something was missing. I used to write when I was a child, and I wanted my own place so I could have a garden.

I'd go to work and find myself surrounded by older people in their thirties and forties who were supposed be my role-models, but they weren't stepping up. They'd be into the bars-clubs-casino boats, and they'd have this attitude like, "Small towns are boring. It's no wonder people die of fentanyl because there's nothing to do."

I'd be like, "Really?! You are such empty losers that you can't develop interests to occupy your time wherever you go?"

Even the socially awkward weirdo they talked into stalking me had enough character to be able to find well-rounded activities to occupy his time. He played bridge. He went to concerts. He joined a Sierra Club type group that traveled all around the area (sometimes around the world) to go camping and hiking. He went on Alaskan cruises and such. Now he plans to climb Mount Everest which I can't wait for because he will be out of my hair for a LOOOOOOONG fraggin' time.

The other losers aged into their fifties and sixties. They still are into the bars-clubs-casino boats, although I will give it to some of them for taking up golfing, which was something the Stalker Guy did they used to make fun of. I'd consider golfing a step above, but since many of the guys are still unmarried childless weirdos, it's not much.

Don't be that person who focuses on 'fun' so much that you end up this loser in your fifties and sixties who is still telling the same stupid stories about back-alley liaisons or getting drunk at bars and ballgames. The most popular incel I work with used to tell stories about how they'd go to union meetings where we were the 'fun' office. Every other office at the meetings would be quiet and focus on the task at hand. Our office would be like WOOOOOT!!! Eat all the pizza! Get seconds before everybody even gets their food! Order drinks! Be loud and obnoxious when the union stewards are trying to talk!

That story seemed really fun when they used to tell it when I was young. Now I'm an old-ass lady with kids surrounded by unmarried childless weirdos who still tell those stories. It comes across deeply sad and pathetic. Seriously, get a life and get other interests besides being that 'super fun guy' at the party who never grows up.

what they dont tell you about adulthood is that it’s startlingly easy to go long periods of time without having any fun at all not even a little bit. btw this causes ur brain to try to kill you with knives and hammers.

[pixiexanny]

i wanna look just like this

[zetterbabe]

if I die tonight, tell sasha barkov he's a sexy mf

[kharmii]

This is totally me, but it's funny when the people who remembered you as a person they had power over when you were but a fresh-faced child turn into sad pathetic losers decades later.

Case in point, I worked with a clique of low lives who looked down on me because I wasn't flirty and because I didn't try hard enough to fit into the dirt bag office culture. They kept pushing this weird guy on me, and I wasn't into him because we had nothing to talk about. He was a patronizing misogynist who treated me like I was inept at life, and to this day, he acts responsible for me in ways.

The dig was that I was considered undesirable as a partner, and therefore I deserved that particular asshole, whereas all the other eligible bachelors were too good for me.

Fast forward to now, and the eligible bachelors ended up as balding aging unmarried childless weirdos. The weird guy is also that way, but he's in good physical shape at least. He supposedly has plans to climb Mount Fucking Everest in the next year. Despite his adventurous lifestyle, the other losers maintain their delusional superior attitude. I'll point out that their lives are mostly over with nothing to show for it, but they won't let it go.

I'm rooting for Stalker Guy up there on that once-in-a-lifetime climb. That would make fantastic irl trolling fodder, like if he manages to successfully climb Mount Everest, that would make him almost good enough for me. The other unmarried incels aren't even close to being good enough for me. After all, I doubt any of those sad pathetic scrubs could haul their out-of-shape asses up a got damn mountain. Srsly, when have any of them planned anything more interesting than going to a casino boat?

*points and laughs at the sorry slap-nuts*

[acediscowlng]

I AM ONCE AGAIN ASKING DC TO TAKE ONE FOR THE TEAM AND MAKE THE SUPERBAT YAOI MINI THAT THE PEOPLE HAVE BEEN ASKING FOR HAPPEN

[bodyhorrorprincess]

me @ my man (he’s 55 and doesn’t exist)

[miiiwu]

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[lolathepeacocklord]

dude i love that one tfa episode where henry masterson gets a red 40 vape and is like duuude im str8 geekin rn and then stops breathing for a whole minute

[femkel]

sometimes I forget that moids call girls foids and I think it was just a typo

[ammy246]

RWBY is like the cartoon equivalent to Jesus. Even if it dies, it'll resurrect itself. The first death occurred when Monty passed and the second with Roosterteeth. But because of the passion of both CRWBY and the fans, it'll live on.

[fenharel]

watching veilguard rise up the steam charts makes me so happy you guys 🥺🥺🥺🥺

[cosmossystem]

so this post may be controversial but i will no longer be silenced. i need people to start being accepting of bears/fat men in general that don't fit into the "dad" vibe or aren't conventionally attractive. quit acting like they've all gotta be incels/mladys/neckbeards/racist weebs etc. because first off, fat hairy nerdy men with patchy beards and glasses or acne or bald spots or whatever are HOT and i'm tired of pretending they're not!!!!!! and more importantly!!! even if you aren't attracted to them (or even if you are) i need you to start being fucking normal about them. because if you keep treating every fat hairy guy with glasses as if he's this rampant bigot, you're just gonna create more divides, and also you're a fucking asshole who equates looks with morality. something something alt-right pipeline, someone's worth is not determined by how attractive you find them, etc. please stop being fatphobic to ppl you don't like lol

[pixiexanny]

[bisexualseraphim]

People who see entire demographics of humanity as “the enemy” are so baffling to me, whether they’re incels/misogynists or racists or radfems or whomever I just look at them and wonder why you’d choose a life of such misery. People of a certain gender, sexuality, race or whatever demographic are not inherently your enemy just because they are part of said demographic. Gender and race essentialism is incredibly dangerous and untrue and it especially confuses me when people who claim to be trans allies abide by the former because that mindset is especially dangerous to trans people.

People are individuals, not a hive mind. Society as a whole has massive issues, and some groups may benefit from them more than others (like how the patriarchy hurts men but they still benefit from it far more than women ever will because it has men in mind, albeit only a certain type of man), but individuals are individuals. And what a depressing life it must be to instead navigate the world believing that millions of people are beneath you before they’ve even spoken a word.